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The Virtues

 

A topic that doesn't come up much in conversation.

So I'll ask the question ...

What is good?

What are the virtues?

What is a virtue?

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Main Entry: vir·tue  
Etymology: Middle English virtu, from Old French, from Latin virtut-, virtus strength, manliness, virtue, from vir man -- more at VIRILE
Date: 13th century
1 a : conformity to a standard of right : MORALITY b : a particular moral excellence
2 plural : an order of angels -- see CELESTIAL HIERARCHY
3 : a beneficial quality or power of a thing
4 : manly strength or courage : VALOR
5 : a commendable quality or trait : MERIT
6 : a capacity to act : POTENCY
7 : chastity especially in a woman

 

theological virtue

Date: 1526
: one of the three spiritual graces 

 

faith,

hope,

charity

 

drawing the soul to God according to scholastic theology 

 

faith Date: 13th century
1 a : allegiance to duty or a person : LOYALTY b (1) : fidelity to one's promises (2) : sincerity of intentions
2 a (1) : belief and trust in and loyalty to God (2) : belief in the traditional doctrines of a religion b (1) : firm belief in something for which there is no proof (2) : complete trust
3 : something that is believed especially with strong conviction; especially : a system of religious beliefs
hope Date: before 12th century
intransitive senses
1 : to cherish a desire with anticipation <hopes for a promotion>
2 archaic : TRUST
transitive senses
1 : to desire with expectation of obtainment
2 : to expect with confidence : TRUST

Date: before 12th century
1 archaic : TRUST, RELIANCE
2 a : desire accompanied by expectation of or belief in fulfillment <came in hopes of seeing you>; also : expectation of fulfillment or success <no hope of a cure> b : someone or something on which hopes are centered <our only hope for victory> c : something hoped for

charity Date: 13th century
1 : benevolent goodwill toward or love of humanity
2 a : generosity and helpfulness especially toward the needy or suffering; also : aid given to those in need b : an institution engaged in relief of the poor c : public provision for the relief of the needy
3 a : a gift for public benevolent purposes b : an institution (as a hospital) founded by such a gift
4 : lenient judgment of others

 

 

cardinal virtue

Date: 14th century
1 : one of the four classically defined natural virtues

 

prudence,

justice,

temperance,

fortitude


2 : a quality designated as a major virtue 

prudence

 

Date: 14th century
1 :the ability to govern and discipline oneself by the use of reason
2 : sagacity or shrewdness in the management of affairs
3 : skill and good judgment in the use of resources
4 : caution or circumspection as to danger or risk

justice

 

Date: 12th century
1 a : the maintenance or administration of what is just especially by the impartial adjustment of conflicting claims or the assignment of merited rewards or punishments b : JUDGE c : the administration of law; especially : the establishment or determination of rights according to the rules of law or equity
2 a : the quality of being just, impartial, or fair b (1) : the principle or ideal of just dealing or right action (2) : conformity to this principle or ideal : RIGHTEOUSNESS c : the quality of conforming to law
3 : conformity to truth, fact, or reason : CORRECTNESS

temperance

 

 

Date: 14th century
1 : moderation in action, thought, or feeling : RESTRAINT
2 a : habitual moderation in the indulgence of the appetites or passions b : moderation in or abstinence from the use of intoxicating drink
fortitude Date: 12th century
1 : strength of mind that enables a person to encounter danger or bear pain or adversity with courage

 

 

 

There are an abundance of virtue lists on the internet.  From Ben Franklin, Hume, every religious group has a list and some are just plain dang weird to me.  This one incorporates most of the other lists.  

 

The Family Virtues Guide

Assertiveness Generosity Patience
Caring Gentleness Peacefulness
Cleanliness Helpfulness Prayerfulness
Compassion Honesty Purposefulness
Confidence Honor Reliability
Consideration Humility Respect
Courage Idealism Responsibility
Courtesy Joyfulness Reverence
Creativity Justice Self-discipline
Detachment Kindness Service
Determination Love Steadfastness
Enthusiasm Loyalty Tact
Excellence Mercy Thankfulness
Faithfulness Moderation Tolerance
Flexibility Modesty Trust
Forgiveness Obedience Trustworthiness
Friendliness Orderliness Truthfulness
Unity
as·ser·tive 
Date: circa 1619
1 : disposed to or characterized by bold or confident
car·ing
Date: before 12th century
b : to feel interest or concern
clean·ly 
Date: circa 1500
1 : careful to keep clean
com·pas·sion 
Etymology: Middle English, from Middle French or Late Latin; Middle French, from Late Latin compassion-, compassio, from compati to sympathize, from Latin com- + pati to bear, suffer -- more at PATIENT
Date: 14th century
: sympathetic consciousness of others' distress together with a desire to alleviate it
con·fi·dence
Date: 14th century
1 a : a feeling or consciousness of one's powers or of reliance on one's circumstances  b : faith or belief that one will act in a right, proper, or effective way
con·sid·er·ation 
Date: 14th century
1 : continuous and careful thought 
2 a : a matter weighed or taken into account when formulating an opinion or plan  b : a taking into account
cour·age 
Etymology: Middle English corage, from Old French, from cuer heart, from Latin cor -- more at HEART
Date: 14th century
: mental or moral strength to venture, persevere, and withstand danger, fear, or difficulty
synonyms COURAGE, METTLE, SPIRIT, RESOLUTION, TENACITY mean mental or moral strength to resist opposition, danger, or hardship. COURAGE implies firmness of mind and will in the face of danger or extreme difficulty <the courage to support unpopular causes>. METTLE suggests an ingrained capacity for meeting strain or difficulty with fortitude and resilience . SPIRIT also suggests a quality of temperament enabling one to hold one's own or keep up one's morale when opposed or threatened . RESOLUTION stresses firm determination to achieve one's ends . TENACITY adds to RESOLUTION implications of stubborn persistence and unwillingness to admit defeat .
cour·te·sy 
Etymology: Middle English corteisie, from Old French, from corteis
Date: 13th century
1 a : courteous behavior b : a courteous act or expression
cre·a·tiv·i·ty 
Date: 1875
1 : the quality of being creative
2 : the ability to create
de·tach·ment 
Date: 1669
3 a : indifference to worldly concerns : ALOOFNESS b : freedom from bias or prejudice
de·ter·mi·na·tion
Date: 14th century
1 a : a judicial decision settling and ending a controversy b : the resolving of a question by argument or reasoning
3 a : the act of deciding definitely and firmly; also : the result of such an act of decision b : the power or habit of deciding definitely and firmly
4 : a fixing or finding of the position, magnitude, value, or character of something: as a : the act, process, or result of an accurate measurement
en·thu·si·asm 
Etymology: Greek enthousiasmos, from enthousiazein to be inspired, irregular from entheos inspired, from en- + theos god
Date: 1603
1 a : belief in special revelations of the Holy Spirit 
2 a : strong excitement of feeling : ARDOR b : something inspiring zeal or fervor
synonym see PASSION
ex·cel·lence 
Date: 14th century
1 : the quality of being excellent
2 : an excellent or valuable quality : VIRTUE
faith·ful 
Date: 14th century
1 obsolete : full of faith
2 : steadfast in affection or allegiance : LOYAL
3 : firm in adherence to promises or in observance of duty : CONSCIENTIOUS
4 : given with strong assurance : BINDING <faithful promise>
5 : true to the facts, to a standard, or to an original <a faithful copy>

synonyms FAITHFUL, LOYAL, CONSTANT, STAUNCH, STEADFAST, RESOLUTE mean firm in adherence to whatever one owes allegiance. FAITHFUL implies unswerving adherence to a person or thing or to the oath or promise by which a tie was contracted . LOYAL implies a firm resistance to any temptation to desert or betray . CONSTANT stresses continuing firmness of emotional attachment without necessarily implying strict obedience to promises or vows. STAUNCH suggests fortitude and resolution in adherence and imperviousness to influences that would weaken it . STEADFAST implies a steady and unwavering course in love, allegiance, or conviction . RESOLUTE implies firm determination to adhere to a cause or purpose.
flex·i·ble 
Date: 15th century
1 : capable of being flexed : PLIANT
2 : yielding to influence : TRACTABLE
3 : characterized by a ready capability to adapt to new, different, or changing requirements 
for·give·ness 
Date: before 12th century
: the act of forgiving
friend·ly 
Date: before 12th century
1 : of, relating to, or befitting a friend : as a : showing kindly interest and goodwill b : not hostile  c : CHEERFUL, COMFORTING 
2 : serving a beneficial or helpful purpose
synonym see AMICABLE
gen·er·os·i·ty 
Date: circa 1616
1 a : the quality or fact of being generous b : a generous act
2 : ABUNDANCE
gen·tle·ness 
Date: 14th century
: the quality or state of being gentle; especially : mildness of manners or disposition
help·ful 
Date: 14th century
: of service or assistance : USEFUL
hon·es·ty 
Date: 14th century
1 obsolete : CHASTITY
2 a : fairness and straightforwardness of conduct b : adherence to the facts : SINCERITY
synonyms HONESTY, HONOR, INTEGRITY, PROBITY mean uprightness of character or action. HONESTY implies a refusal to lie, steal, or deceive in any way. HONOR suggests an active or anxious regard for the standards of one's profession, calling, or position. INTEGRITY implies trustworthiness and incorruptibility to a degree that one is incapable of being false to a trust, responsibility, or pledge. PROBITY implies tried and proven honesty or integrity.
hon·or 
Etymology: Middle English, from Old French honor, from Latin honos, honor
Date: 13th century
1 a : good name or public esteem : REPUTATION b : a showing of usually merited respect : RECOGNITION <pay honor to our founder>
4 : one whose worth brings respect or fame : CREDIT <an honor to the profession>
7 : CHASTITY, PURITY <fought fiercely for her honor and her life -- Barton Black>
8 a : a keen sense of ethical conduct : INTEGRITY b : one's word given as a guarantee of performance
synonyms HONOR, HOMAGE, REVERENCE, DEFERENCE mean respect and esteem shown to another. HONOR may apply to the recognition of one's right to great respect or to any expression of such recognition <the nomination is an honor>. HOMAGE adds the implication of accompanying praise <paying homage to Shakespeare>. REVERENCE implies profound respect mingled with love, devotion, or awe <great reverence for my father>. DEFERENCE implies a yielding or submitting to another's judgment or preference out of respect or reverence <showed no deference to their elders>. synonym see in addition HONESTY

hu·mil·i·ty 
Date: 14th century
: the quality or state of being humble 

hum·ble

1 : not proud or haughty : not arrogant or assertive

ide·al·ism 
Date: 1796
2 a : the practice of forming ideals or living under their influence b : something that is idealized
joy·ful 
Date: 13th century
: experiencing, causing, or showing joy : HAPPY
jus·tice 
Etymology: Middle English, from Old English & Old French; Old English justice, from Old French justice, from Latin justitia, from justus
Date: 12th century
2 a : the quality of being just, impartial, or fair b (1) : the principle or ideal of just dealing or right action (2) : conformity to this principle or ideal : RIGHTEOUSNESS c : the quality of conforming to law
3 : conformity to truth, fact, or reason : CORRECTNESS
kind·ness 
Date: 13th century
1 : a kind deed : FAVOR
2 a : the quality or state of being kind
love 
Etymology: Middle English, from Old English lufu; akin to Old High German luba love, Old English lEof dear, Latin lubEre, libEre to please
Date: before 12th century
1 a (1) : strong affection for another arising out of kinship or personal ties <maternal love for a child> (2) : attraction based on sexual desire : affection and tenderness felt by lovers (3) : affection based on admiration, benevolence, or common interests <love for his old schoolmates> b : an assurance of love <give her my love>
2 : warm attachment, enthusiasm, or devotion <love of the sea>
3 a : the object of attachment, devotion, or admiration <baseball was his first love> b (1) : a beloved person : DARLING -- often used as a term of endearment (2) British -- used as an informal term of address
4 a : unselfish loyal and benevolent concern for the good of another: as (1) : the fatherly concern of God for humankind (2) : brotherly concern for others b : a person's adoration of God
- in love : inspired by affection
loy·al·ty 
Etymology: Middle English loyaltee, from Middle French loialté, from Old French leialté, from leial
Date: 15th century
: the quality or state or an instance of being loyal
synonym see FIDELITY
mer·cy 
Etymology: Middle English, from Old French merci, from Medieval Latin merced-, merces, from Latin, price paid, wages, from merc-, merx merchandise
Date: 13th century
1 a : compassion or forbearance shown especially to an offender or to one subject to one's power; also : lenient or compassionate treatment <begged for mercy> b : imprisonment rather than death imposed as penalty for first-degree murder
2 a : a blessing that is an act of divine favor or compassion b : a fortunate circumstance <it was a mercy they found her before she froze>
3 : compassionate treatment of those in distress <works of mercy among the poor>
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synonyms MERCY, CHARITY, CLEMENCY, GRACE, LENIENCY mean a disposition to show kindness or compassion. MERCY implies compassion that forbears punishing even when justice demands it <threw himself on the mercy of the court>. CHARITY stresses benevolence and goodwill shown in broad understanding and tolerance of others <show a little charity for the less fortunate>. CLEMENCY implies a mild or merciful disposition in one having the power or duty of punishing <the judge refused to show clemency>. GRACE implies a benign attitude and a willingness to grant favors or make concessions <by the grace of God>. LENIENCY implies lack of severity in punishing <criticized the courts for excessive leniency>.
mod·er·ate 
Date: 15th century
transitive senses
1 : to lessen the intensity or extremeness of <the sun moderated the chill>
2 : to become less violent, severe, or intense
mod·es·ty 
Date: 1531
1 : freedom from conceit or vanity
2 : propriety in dress, speech, or conduct
obe·di·ence 
Date: 13th century
1 a : an act or instance of obeying b : the quality or state of being obedient
 or·der·li·ness 
Date: 1571
: the quality or state of being orderly
pa·tience 

Date: 13th century
1 : the capacity, habit, or fact of being patient
1pa·tient 
Etymology: Middle English pacient, from Middle French, from Latin patient-, patiens, from present participle of pati to suffer; perhaps akin to Greek pEma suffering
Date: 14th century
1 : bearing pains or trials calmly or without complaint
2 : manifesting forbearance under provocation or strain
3 : not hasty or impetuous
4 : steadfast despite opposition, difficulty, or adversity
peace·ful 
Date: 14th century
1 : PEACEABLE 1
2 : untroubled by conflict, agitation, or commotion : QUIET, TRANQUIL
3 : of or relating to a state or time of peace
4 : devoid of violence or force
synonym see CALM
prayer·ful 
Date: 1626
1 : DEVOUT
2 : EARNEST, SINCERE
pur·pose·ful 
Date: 1853
1 : having a purpose : as a : MEANINGFUL b : INTENTIONAL 
2 : full of determination 
re·li·abil·i·ty 
Date: 1816
1 : the quality or state of being reliable
re·spect 
Etymology: Middle English, from Latin respectus, literally, act of looking back, from respicere to look back, regard, from re- + specere to look -- more at SPY
Date: 14th century
3 a : high or special regard : ESTEEM b : the quality or state of being esteemed c plural : expressions of respect or deference <paid our respects>
re·spon·si·bil·i·ty 
Date: 1786
1 : the quality or state of being responsible : as a : moral, legal, or mental accountability b : RELIABILITY, TRUSTWORTHINESS
2 : something for which one is responsible : BURDEN
rev·er·ence 
Date: 14th century
1 : honor or respect felt or shown : DEFERENCE; especially : profound adoring awed respect
2 : a gesture of respect (as a bow)
3 : the state of being revered
4 : one held in reverence -- used as a title for a clergyman
synonym see HONOR
self-dis·ci·pline 
Date: 1838
: correction or regulation of oneself for the sake of improvement
ser·vice 
Etymology: Middle English, from Middle French, from Latin servitium condition of a slave, body of slaves, from servus slave
Date: 13th century
1 a : the occupation or function of serving <in active service> b : employment as a servant <entered his service>
2 a : the work performed by one that serves <good service> b : HELP, USE, BENEFIT <glad to be of service> c : contribution to the welfare of others d : disposal for use
stead·fast 
Etymology: Middle English stedefast, from Old English stedefæst, from stede + fæst fixed, fast
Date: before 12th century
2 : firm in belief, determination, or adherence : LOYAL
synonym see FAITHFUL
tact 
Etymology: French, sense of touch, from Latin tactus, from tangere to touch -- more at TANGENT
Date: 1797
1 : sensitive mental or aesthetic perception <converted the novel into a play with remarkable skill and tact>
2 : a keen sense of what to do or say in order to maintain good relations with others or avoid offense
synonyms TACT, ADDRESS, POISE, SAVOIR FAIRE mean skill and grace in dealing with others. TACT implies delicate and considerate perception of what is appropriate <questions showing a lack of tact>. ADDRESS stresses dexterity and grace in dealing with new and trying situations and may imply success in attaining one's ends <brought it off with remarkable address>. POISE may imply both tact and address but stresses self-possession and ease in meeting difficult situations <answered the accusations with unruffled poise>. SAVOIR FAIRE is likely to stress worldly experience and a sure awareness of what is proper or expedient <the savoir faire of a seasoned traveler>.
thank·ful 
Date: before 12th century
1 : conscious of benefit received <for what we are about to receive make us truly thankful>
2 : expressive of thanks <thankful service>
3 : well pleased : GLAD <was thankful that it didn't rain>
tol·er·ance 
Date: 15th century
1 : capacity to endure pain or hardship : ENDURANCE, FORTITUDE, STAMINA
2 a : sympathy or indulgence for beliefs or practices differing from or conflicting with one's own b : the act of allowing something : TOLERATION
3 : the allowable deviation from a standard; especially : the range of variation permitted in maintaining a specified dimension in machining a piece
trust 
Etymology: Middle English, probably of Scandinavian origin; akin to Old Norse traust trust; akin to Old English trEowe faithful -- more at TRUE
Date: 13th century
1 a : assured reliance on the character, ability, strength, or truth of someone or something b : one in which confidence is placed
trust·wor·thy 
Date: 1829
: worthy of confidence : DEPENDABLE
truth·ful 
Date: 1596
: telling or disposed to tell the truth
uni·ty 
Etymology: Middle English unite, from Middle French unité, from Latin unitat-, unitas, from unus one -- more at ONE
Date: 14th century
1 a : the quality or state of not being multiple : ONENESS b (1) : a definite amount taken as one or for which 1 is made to stand in calculation <in a table of natural sines the radius of the circle is regarded as unity> (2) : IDENTITY ELEMENT
2 a : a condition of harmony : ACCORD b : continuity without deviation or change (as in purpose or action)
3 a : the quality or state of being made one : UNIFICATION b : a combination or ordering of parts in a literary or artistic production that constitutes a whole or promotes an undivided total effect; also : the resulting singleness of effect or symmetry and consistency of style and character
4 : a totality of related parts : an entity that is a complex or systematic whole

 

Which brings me to this definition ---

per·plex
1 : to make unable to grasp something clearly or to think logically and decisively about something

      

 

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